* speedup ActorCreationPerfSpec
* reduce iterations in ConsistencySpec
* tag SupervisorHierarchySpec as LongRunningTest
* various small speedups and tagging in actor-tests
* speedup expectNoMsg in stream-tests
* tag FramingSpec, and reduce iterations
* speedup QueueSourceSpec
* tag some stream-tests
* reduce iterations in persistence.PerformanceSpec
* reduce iterations in some cluster perf tests
* tag RemoteWatcherSpec
* tag InterpreterStressSpec
* remove LongRunning from ClusterConsistentHashingRouterSpec
* sys property to disable multi-jvm tests in test
* actually disable multi-node tests in validatePullRequest
* doc sbt flags in CONTRIBUTING
* addunidoc task via an AutoPlugin that depends on PrValidation and Unidoc autoplugins
* separate cli option logic to a case class
* remove autoplugin for root project
+ enable parallel execution
+ exclude perf tests (TODO mark more as such)
+ uses sbt-dependency-graph plugin
+ implement dependency tracking for testing of only these
+ project which could have been affected by a given PR